In our wedding vows, we promise to love each other “in good times and bad times, in sickness and in health.” I know for a fact that my grandparents have been there for each other through it all. The older they get, the more ailments they’ll see, and yet they still stay right next to each other, holding each others hand.
10. Living life together: Enjoy the companionship you have together.
And last but not least, this one means so much to me. I always thank God that I get to do life with my husband, and now I know where I get it from. Living life together is a beautiful thing. God placed us with our spouse to make this life a little sweeter. The companionship we have may not always look glamorous or exciting, but just being together, truly appreciating one another is what makes a marriage tick. My Momo & Popo definitely enjoy the life they have together. It’s an awesome thing to see.
In my head, I can hear my Momo singing, “If you can survive to a 105, I’ll love you.” Their love really is one for the books. Momo and Popo still hold hands, make each other laugh, watch movies, go out to eat, respect each other, cherish their marriage, love their family and children relentlessly, and put God first always. Right now, Popo has been a little sick, and things have had to change a bit with him being in and out of the hospital, but their love still holds stronger than ever before. I admire them, love them, and thank God for them and all the lessons they have taught me. I hope and pray that I can one day celebrate 59 years of marriage and make it look as beautiful as they do.
Happy Anniversary, Momo & Popo! Thank you for always being an inspiration to all who know you, and thanks for letting me share your wonderful advice. May it be a blessing to all who read it.
Meg O. says
Ahhhh this is just so wonderful. I absolutely adore the fact that you have this in her handwriting. So, so special. I wish I had someone in my (immediate) family like this for such fantastic marriage advice. Marriage isn’t a strong suit for my side of the family. Anyway, accepting each other has been huge for me in my marriage – that is such fantastic advice. We grow and change so much in such a short amount of time, so being able to accept each other during these changes makes us stronger. Beautiful post, Kristy. Thank you for sharing with us, Momo!
Kristy says
Thanks, Meg! I just love my grandma, and I’m so, so thankful she wrote it down. They are definitely the role models in our family, and we all feel very fortunate to have them to look up to. Acceptance and compromise is huge. Marriage is definitely something that requires work every day. :) Thanks again, my dear!
Amanda says
So sweet and such great advice!! Thank you for sharing this! Fabulous post!!
Kristy says
Aww, so glad you liked it, Amanda! I was so happy to share. :)
AnnEhnert says
Such a sweet post to honor so many wonderful years! This advice is certainly timeless and so perfect. It’s not easy, but looking at these two and seeing how they stood the test of time, they are a true example of what can result from hard work, love and true dedication. Thanks for sharing.
Kristy says
Thanks, Ann! It’s most definitely timeless. I’ll be passing this along to Charlotte when she’s older and a wife herself one day. I’m so proud of my grandparents. They have overcome so much, and their love really is a testament to God’s goodness. I was so happy to share. :)
Tawnya Faust says
A handwritten note?!! So sweet! This post brought tears to my eyes, it’s so beautiful. Thank you for sharing :) xo
Kristy says
Yes! I just love my Momo. :) I’m glad it touched you. They are really some amazing people.
Kaity Bee says
My Grandma lost her husband very early and went 30+ years without remarrying because she loved him so dearly. I adored that about her. :)
Kristy says
Aww, that is the sweetest, Kaity! Love can be really beautiful.
Whitney Smith says
This is too precious. Words of wisdom for sure!
Kristy says
Thanks, Whitney! They really are some precious people. I’ll cherish their wisdom forever. :)
Christina says
Your grandparents seem like very special, loving people. What a blessing to have them in your life! Beautiful post, I love her letter.
Kristy says
Thanks, Christina! They really are. I am definitely grateful to have them in my life. Hope you’re having a great week!
Meg O. says
Ahhhh this is just so wonderful. I absolutely adore the fact that you have this in her handwriting. So, so special. I wish I had someone in my (immediate) family like this for such fantastic marriage advice. Marriage isn't a strong suit for my side of the family. Anyway, accepting each other has been huge for me in my marriage – that is such fantastic advice. We grow and change so much in such a short amount of time, so being able to accept each other during these changes makes us stronger. Beautiful post, Kristy. Thank you for sharing with us, Momo!
Amanda says
So sweet and such great advice!! Thank you for sharing this! Fabulous post!!
Jennifer | The Deliberate Mom says
Awww, I just loved this. Then I got weepy.
I yearn for my husband to be on the same faith journey as me. It’s such a disconnect in our relationship – I just, pray, pray, and pray that one day we can connect on the faith level as we have in all other areas of our lives. He is an amazing man and 100% supports me practicing Christianity and raising our children as Christian. I am blessed and so thankful. However, it does lend itself to a very solo spiritual life.
Your grandparents are amazing and their advice is bang-on. Unselfishness and forgiveness are huge. It makes a world of difference to simply say “I’m sorry.”
Beautiful post. Happy anniversary to your Momo and Popo!
xoxo
Kristy says
Oh, Jennifer, I’m so glad you loved it and that it touched you.
Hang in there with your husband. My grandma had seven kids while dealing with a man that wasn’t always easy to deal with, and she waited and prayed for her husband to become a church-goer. And one day it did happen. Now look at him? A deacon. :) I’m not saying I know what will happen, but boy, do I believe in the power of prayer.
I think they definitely know a thing or two about marriage after 59 years. And if you could see them today? It’s the sweetest thing you’d ever see.
Xoxo!
AnnEhnert says
Such a sweet post to honor so many wonderful years! This advice is certainly timeless and so perfect. It's not easy, but looking at these two and seeing how they stood the test of time, they are a true example of what can result from hard work, love and true dedication. Thanks for sharing.
Tawnya Faust says
A handwritten note?!! So sweet! This post brought tears to my eyes, it's so beautiful. Thank you for sharing :) xo
Kaity Stuckert says
My Grandma lost her husband very early and went 30+ years without remarrying because she loved him so dearly. I adored that about her. :)
Whitney Smith says
This is too precious. Words of wisdom for sure!
Christina says
Your grandparents seem like very special, loving people. What a blessing to have them in your life! Beautiful post, I love her letter.
Jennifer | The Deliberate Mom says
Awww, I just loved this. Then I got weepy.
I yearn for my husband to be on the same faith journey as me. It's such a disconnect in our relationship – I just, pray, pray, and pray that one day we can connect on the faith level as we have in all other areas of our lives. He is an amazing man and 100% supports me practicing Christianity and raising our children as Christian. I am blessed and so thankful. However, it does lend itself to a very solo spiritual life.
Your grandparents are amazing and their advice is bang-on. Unselfishness and forgiveness are huge. It makes a world of difference to simply say "I'm sorry."
Beautiful post. Happy anniversary to your Momo and Popo!
xoxo
Rita Calzada Saenz says
Kristy, “I can’t even” with this heartfelt post! Just looking at the pictures of Mother & Father and Mother’s priceless written advice, had me in tears. I read your post and I was literally sobbing. Honoring your Popo and Momo on their 59th anniversary on your blog is a priceless gift to them. Thank you for sharing! This one is top of the list for me! Love you!
Kristy says
Aww, Aunt Rita! :) Isn’t it the most to say the least? When my mom sent me what Momo wrote, I just cried and cried. Then I had to get it together to write it down. I’ll hang on to these words forever. Love you so much, too!
Abi at Joy In My Kitchen says
I love stories like this. Such a great legacy to have and share. Thank you for sharing their example for all of us.
Kristy says
Thanks so much, Abi! I love these stories too, and I’m so grateful to have them part of my life. I know their legacy will live on through their family for years to come. :)
Rita Calzada Saenz says
Kristy, "I can't even" with this heartfelt post! Just looking at the pictures of Mother & Father and Mother's priceless written advice, had me in tears. I read your post and I was literally sobbing. Honoring your Popo and Momo on their 59th anniversary on your blog is a priceless gift to them. Thank you for sharing! This one is top of the list for me! Love you!
Abi at Joy In My Kitchen says
I love stories like this. Such a great legacy to have and share. Thank you for sharing their example for all of us.
Kristy says
Thanks, Meg! I just love my grandma, and I'm so, so thankful she wrote it down. They are definitely the role models in our family, and we all feel very fortunate to have them to look up to. Acceptance and compromise is huge. Marriage is definitely something that requires work every day. :) Thanks again, my dear!
Kristy says
Aww, so glad you liked it, Amanda! I was so happy to share. :)
Kristy says
Thanks, Ann! It's most definitely timeless. I'll be passing this along to Charlotte when she's older and a wife herself one day. I'm so proud of my grandparents. They have overcome so much, and their love really is a testament to God's goodness. I was so happy to share. :)
Kristy says
Yes! I just love my Momo. :) I'm glad it touched you. They are really some amazing people.
Kristy says
Aww, that is the sweetest, Kaity! Love can be really beautiful.
Kristy says
Thanks, Whitney! They really are some precious people. I'll cherish their wisdom forever. :)
Kristy says
Thanks, Christina! They really are. I am definitely grateful to have them in my life. Hope you're having a great week!
Kristy says
Oh, Jennifer, I'm so glad you loved it and that it touched you.
Hang in there with your husband. My grandma had seven kids while dealing with a man that wasn't always easy to deal with, and she waited and prayed for her husband to become a church-goer. And one day it did happen. Now look at him? A deacon. :) I'm not saying I know what will happen, but boy, do I believe in the power of prayer.
I think they definitely know a thing or two about marriage after 59 years. And if you could see them today? It's the sweetest thing you'd ever see.
Xoxo!
Kristy says
Aww, Aunt Rita! :) Isn't it the most to say the least? When my mom sent me what Momo wrote, I just cried and cried. Then I had to get it together to write it down. I'll hang on to these words forever. Love you so much, too!
Kristy says
Thanks so much, Abi! I love these stories too, and I'm so grateful to have them part of my life. I know their legacy will live on through their family for years to come. :)
Jenna Owens (@aSavoryFeast) says
Wow, 59 years! That is incredible. As someone who is getting married soon, this post was really encouraging to me. I’m pinning it so I can reread it in the future! So many great tips.
Kristy says
So happy you found it encouraging! They really are a beautiful and amazing couple. Best wishes always, Jenna!
Jessica says
These types of posts are always so inspiring to me, to see a couple who has been together for so long and been through some really hard things and still come out on top puts tears in my eyes. They are one beautiful couple and I loved every bit of her advice <3
Kristy says
Thanks, Jess! They are the best, and I’m lucky to have them in my life. So thankful she wrote these for me and for everyone. :)
Jenna Brussee says
Wow, 59 years! That is incredible. As someone who is getting married soon, this post was really encouraging to me. I'm pinning it so I can reread it in the future! So many great tips.
Jessica says
These types of posts are always so inspiring to me, to see a couple who has been together for so long and been through some really hard things and still come out on top puts tears in my eyes. They are one beautiful couple and I loved every bit of her advice <3
Tiffany {A Touch of Grace} says
I waited until today to read this post since it’s our 5 year anniversary Kristy. And now I’m crying. Your grandparents sound like awesome people with such a strong bond. Your grandma gave you some amazing and very sound advice. What a sweet, sweet post.
Kristy says
Oh, thank you Tiffany! They most certainly are. I’ll be thankful for her words forever. Xoxo
Christie Melissa Watkins says
Wow, beautiful. It IS very inspiring (as Jessica noted in her comment.) It gives ME hope! I interviewed my grandmother before she died and asked her what advice she’d give to us younger generations and she said (with her dry British humor) “don’t get married.” Its refreshing to see that true & eternal love is real. <3
Kristy says
Thanks so much, Christie! It is definitely refreshing to see that couples still fight for their marriages. Their love really is one for the books. It’s out there for sure. :)
Tiffany {A Touch of Grace} says
I waited until today to read this post since it's our 5 year anniversary Kristy. And now I'm crying. Your grandparents sound like awesome people with such a strong bond. Your grandma gave you some amazing and very sound advice. What a sweet, sweet post.
Christie Melissa Watkins says
Wow, beautiful. It IS very inspiring (as Jessica noted in her comment.) It gives ME hope! I interviewed my grandmother before she died and asked her what advice she'd give to us younger generations and she said (with her dry British humor) "don't get married." Its refreshing to see that true & eternal love is real. <3
Alycia says
This is so beautiful!!! I seriously adore the generation office grandparents. They truly have so much insight and are such an inspiration; such a great example to look to. I love the photo of them dancing. True happiness right there!!! XO
Kristy says
Thanks, Alycia! I definitely adore our grandparents’ generation. The picture of them dancing is definitely one of my favorites too. :) So much love.
Alycia says
This is so beautiful!!! I seriously adore the generation office grandparents. They truly have so much insight and are such an inspiration; such a great example to look to. I love the photo of them dancing. True happiness right there!!! XO
Kristy says
So happy you found it encouraging! They really are a beautiful and amazing couple. Best wishes always, Jenna!
Kristy says
Thanks, Jess! They are the best, and I'm lucky to have them in my life. So thankful she wrote these for me and for everyone. :)
Kristy says
Oh, thank you Tiffany! They most certainly are. I'll be thankful for her words forever. Xoxo
Kristy says
Thanks so much, Christie! It is definitely refreshing to see that couples still fight for their marriages. Their love really is one for the books. It's out there for sure. :)
Kristy says
Thanks, Alycia! I definitely adore our grandparents' generation. The picture of them dancing is definitely one of my favorites too. :) So much love.
Christa Sterken says
This really moved my heart. Thank you for honoring your family in a way that your Momo’s wisdom is shared in ways she could never have imagined